Geek gatekeeping is about the variety of ways that geekdom is defined to exclude women.
- Girl stuff - not truly geeky.
- Women are accused of being fake geek girls.
- Women are assumed to be here with my boyfriend.
- The assumption that women are geeks' partners is a pervasive one in commentary on geek topics - rather than geeks in their own right.
- Hence terms like girlfriend mode.
- This leads some women to be reluctant to admit to genuinely having boyfriend-transmitted geekdom, because of stereotype threat!
- At some tech industry events, women are presumed to be, and treated as, non-technical. (See Sarah Lamb talking about why she started Girl Geek Dinners)
- Women trying to acquire professional credentials face a double bind:
- In universities, computer science majors' social groups are often hostile to women (see Reagle, "On being a geek" in "Free as in sexist?"), and social isolation is detrimental to success in any academia area.
- It's hard for women to be taken seriously if they choose to be self-taught instead of obtaining a degree in a STEM field. By contrast, male autodidacts can often achieve professional success (at least in software).